I spent a long part of my life thinking I was happy. I actually wasn’t.
I did too much for other people, I was mentally exhausted, drained and I stopped caring about myself. I allowed things to happen to me without truly seeing them for what they were…disrespect. I made excuses for people, I felt guilty about things I had zero control over and I didn’t realise that even though I was a strong and independent woman…I had unknowingly allowed my personal respect and power to be eroded.
It took a very long time for me feel strong enough to deal with this. I didn’t feel I was good enough, or worthy, or smart enough to stand up for myself and start being the person I needed to be. One day though, I did it. I started to realise I was much more than what I was feeling. I was good enough, I was smart enough and damn straight I was worth it.
So, I made changes in my life for the better. Some easy and some very hard, but all the right things to do, for me. I’m continually working toward being the best version of myself. A journey that will never end. I love great books, sarcasm, and clever humour and I do not think farts are funny. I’m a fun loving girl who loves wine, cake and shoes and I spend far too much time talking to myself.
I’m also a sweary mum. Just putting that out there. Don’t hate me.
How Can I Help?
There are a lot of women out there who feel the same way I did.
Not happy, not achieving what they want out of life, not moving forward. This might even be you?
If so, then I hope I can help.
Here, I share my experiences, my thoughts, resources and anything else I find that has helped me along the way. I hope you can find useful ideas, advice or even just be able to have a laugh at me, which will (hopefully), make your day just a tiny bit better.