• About
  • Media
  • Become a Contributor
    • Editorial Guidelines

The Daily Authentic - Just Be You, Everyday

  • Articles
    • Self
    • Lifestyle
    • Career & Finance

What Ticks You Off…and Why You Need To Deal With It

Articles· Self

13 Mar
What ticks you off and why you need to deal with it The Daily Authentic

Most of us get upset about stuff several times a day.

There are plenty of reasons why something or someone becomes a source of anger or frustration to us.  PLENTY.  

Several of the most common reasons are as such…

Rejection

Feeling unwanted, not cared for, not loved.

Hurt

When you get wounded, when your heart breaks, when you are left out or don’t feel valued.

Injustice

Getting upset at those who don’t understand right and wrong.  Wrongs committed against those you love or respect or when you are betrayed.

Fear

A threat to you or someone you love.

Frustration

Annoyance.  People doing things just to see a reaction in you.  

All of these things can happen daily, to you, me, anyone.  They can if not properly controlled, allow you to totally and utterly lose the plot.  To break down in a sobbing pile and not just lose your marbles, but literally throw them out of a moving train.

There are a  LOT of things that totally tick me off. Just ask me, I’ll tell you…

Things I Hate ( in no particular order)

Rude people.

Slow people; 

Slow drivers;

Slow walkers;

Completely stupid people; 

People with zero education; 

Absolute bloody idiots;

Girls who pretend to be stupid to get attention whom actually, are not.

Farts.

People who think farts are funny; 

People who fart in public;

People who fart in public and laugh; 

People who fart in public to piss off other people and think it’s funny and laugh. 

Yelling. 

Screaming; 

Arguing; 

People who feel the need to argue about unnecessary things;

People who create arguments from nothing;

Backchat;

Backchat from kids;

Backchat from insolent teenagers who really should know better.

People who don’t listen.

People who ask for advice but never act on it;

Asking someone to do something (nicely) which never gets done;

Asking for something to be done now, (for a specific fucking reason) and standing there watching the askee NOT do whatever the fuck it was you asked for.

Racist Jokes. 

Sexist jokes; 

People who make racist or sexist jokes and when others get upset say things like “ it’s just a joke!!!” or “ it’s just  (insert country of origin here) humour!!”.  Note to you – it’s not humour.  It just proves what an absolute loser you are.

I’m sure there are more, but that’s it for now…

 

The big question though, is can you let it go? 

Can you be like Elsa?  Can you put your frustrations to the side and just steam ahead concentrating on living your best life?

Sometimes you can, and sometimes you can’t. 

We are human, and in being so means we tend to stew over things we probably shouldn’t.  We let things bother us that we probably shouldn’t.  We resent, we hurt, we hate, we grieve.  

And we can also love.  

We can forgive and forget and wipe our memories of our hurtful past.  

It might be hard to do those things, but if you can’t – you will never ever truly be free.

Just Be You, Everyday

Tweet
Share
Pin
Share
0 Shares
« Why I’m Choosing To Prioritise Sleep
Why Working From Home Is Bad For My Mental Health »
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest

Does Your Life Need A Reset?

Regroup and Recharge

Take stock of what you have achieved this last year in order to move forward with purpose and passion.

Download the free year in review workbook now!

thedailyauthentic

Sometimes when you feel like you just slog it out Sometimes when you feel like you just slog it out constantly, it can be hard to see your true worth. ⁠
⁠
Everyone has down days and bad days and grumpy days.....but the trick is to try & have more up days than down.⁠
⁠
I think you might need to hear this - so listen up.......you might not feel like it today, but you are amazing!  Be Your Best x⁠
⁠
#justbeyoueveryday⁠
#thedailyauthentic⁠
⁠
⁠
Planning is super important to keep yourself on tr Planning is super important to keep yourself on track.  It allows you to have things to focus on, to look forward too and to push yourself to achieve.⁠
⁠
HOWEVER........Self-reflection is just as important as planning ahead.  Almost more important. ⁠
⁠
Do you ever ask yourself the important questions?⁠
⁠
What have I accomplished?⁠
What have I learned?⁠
What do I want to leave behind?⁠
⁠
Sometimes you get stuck down in the dirt of everyday life and its hard to see the positives.  A bit of reflection helps you to see the good things you have done, at a time when you probably can’t remember any of them.⁠
⁠
#justbeyoueveryday ⁠
#thedailyauthentic⁠
⁠
You never know what it might bring you!⁠⁠
⁠⁠
Being thankful for and appreciative for what you have changes your mindset of how you view the world. ⁠⁠
⁠⁠
Check out The Resilience Project and @hughvancuylenburg and learn the strategy that is GEM. ⁠⁠
⁠⁠
⁠⁠
#thedailyauthentic⁠⁠
#justbeyoueveryday
What a year. Christmas again? So soon?!! 😂 What a year.  Christmas again? So soon?!! 😂
After a massive weekend, it’s nice to relax doin After a massive weekend, it’s nice to relax doing something new.  Me. watching cricket. Who knew?? #scgvirgin #t20 #ausvsind #membersthankyouverymuch
Never fails to impress.... quickly becoming my fav Never fails to impress.... quickly becoming my fave place to visit in the Hunter...🍷 
#bimbadgen 
#getthecabmerlot 
#huntervalleywinecountry 
@swampy154
Who would have thunk it... a beer I actually like😳😂 
#huntervalley 
#kolsh
#pottersbrewery
This little gorgeous thing is 14 today. Being a p This little gorgeous thing is 14 today.  Being a parent is hard, there’s no instruction book and sometimes you wonder if you are doing the right thing. I often wonder if I’m doing the right thing.... then I look at this girl, listen to her wit, her sarcasm, her knowledge and wisdom beyond her years and I think... you know something? I think I did good. 

#birthdaygirl 
#justbeyoueveryday
Today is siblings day. Today I would like to than Today is siblings day.

Today I would like to thank, and yell at, 6 individuals who a) shit me😂. b) make my life crazy c) are the best humans ever.

Being the baby of a family has its ups and downs... not ever getting to be the first at anything.  Not ever really being part of the “crowd”, missing out on all the good stuff that everyone else remembers except for you.. However, it also means you get to pretend you are besties with 6 very cool people . And laugh at them (a lot!) Win pun wars against them ( cause they are all getting so old!!!😂😂😂😉) and just all the time knowing they are just as cool as you (well, fucking almost!!!! 😂😂) Love you lots xxx

#familymatters 
#lotsofkids 
#thedailyauthentic 
#justbeyoueveryday
Load More… Follow on Instagram
  • Privacy Policy
  • Become a Contributor
  • Editorial Guidelines

Copyright © 2021 · Refined theme by Restored 316